My mother kept me from seeing a boy like you, but my mom told me this is the one that would eventually become my husband and my life partner. She was right about that, but I still had to wait for him to get his stuff together. He was out of town when he first started dating me, then his family accepted us into their culture. His father was against our relationship since the time we were born as well. The two of them fought often. At an age, they have different views on some things, which caused problems in both families of ours and it is not easy to survive in such situations.
But after all, we are young people and even if life has its ups and downs, we can never stop loving each other. We have different interests, but we will stick together and live happily in our world. There are many things we love most about each other, so let’s just keep going. It is really hard to find a good girl who likes boys like you so much. So what do you need to do to find one of these girls?
1) Look at her carefully and be careful to see whether she is mature enough to handle herself. If she likes your kind of thing and looks at you closely with her eyes; then I think she is interested in you. But if she looks down on you or talks badly about you, I don’t think you should worry about her at all. Even if she says bad things about you, don’t listen.
2) Ask questions about your personality; your likes and dislikes; you like reading, watching TV, etc., and ask her about those things. Don’t tell her what you think about them, because this won’t go right. Only show her those things she cares about.
3) Don’t talk for hours on end; unless you know her very well, don’t answer every single question she asks you. Wait for more than five minutes to answer. Then listen patiently. And finally listen and take everything she says very seriously and don’t think about it until you hear the last sentence, until you say goodbye. After listening to her silently for several seconds, give her enough attention to make her feel comfortable. You don’t have to make up something completely, but a little bit of change and kindness every day could bring joy to her. Because no matter whether you are happy or sad, there will always be someone who wants to play with the beautiful princess without worrying about anyone’s feelings. What makes a person happy? Maybe it’s playing music with you! No matter how busy you are with work or study, just open yourself to her and let her light you, and enjoy the beauty in front of you. You’ll find out that you have nothing to worry about in the future!
4) Know that they do not like some boys like you, some girls, too. Try to avoid asking them what boys like, but ask them what girls like. Listen and accept what they say. They will tell you what they think about you. They will also teach you, which shows you that they are smart. Of course, you need to pay attention to their opinions. But if you don’t, you may face trouble later in your marriage. Just stay calm and look at the positive side of everyone’s opinion. Not only when they complimented you, but also when they hated you. A lot of people in your position may feel embarrassed once they see themselves in someone else’s eyes. However, a few people will respect you, but some people will think rudely about it. Keep in mind that you are a big person and everyone’s opinion matters to you. If you can find someone who doesn’t think negatively about you, it would help you greatly.
5) When you meet, try not to speak in advance. Have an understanding conversation, but don’t expect anything specific. In contrast, before meeting, always show politeness. People will sometimes want to ask you a favor but don’t know what they should do. This can happen when you first meet, but as soon as the conversation starts, they think they have to ask. Sometimes others may be afraid of saying “yes” (or “no”) to the man they like (or dislike). It is important to learn to overcome prejudice. Your friends will help you avoid mistakes in social situations and let you lead a better and happier life.
So after thinking back to those women who came into our lives, I realized that they were a little bit different than all the others. Because they didn’t want men to have their freedom, nor did they like the idea of being alone all day. Some of them didn’t like the idea of marrying someone who was so gentle and innocent. All these women were unique. To find someone who would treat you equally is easy, because those relationships are not meant for you. Once you find such a lovely woman, you can expect your home life to be full of happiness. Women who are willing to spend money on romantic items will attract more people to spend money with them, but women who are willing to treat you like a king and raise you will not be rejected by any man. Think about it: if you are worth anything, why should someone waste their life treating you bad? You will probably become bitter if you aren’t treated as your own queen? Once you have met one of those women, then you must not forget to introduce her to the rest of your close friends. If you don’t meet her often, it may get boring. But as long as you have met, talk to her often. Just go home and send her text messages. Tell her that you are looking forward to spending time with one another. Give her flowers, chocolates, and gifts. Treat her nicely and don’t judge her. Be friendly to her. Make her feel special. Be honest with her.
The next step after getting married is having children. These days, many couples have children, especially mothers, so it would be great to give birth to babies without tension. Everyone loves puppies, so you can start from a puppy, and gradually increase the number of puppies. It’s not always a problem to talk to other girls and ask them what they consider a good dog name. Take care to ask the owner. Remember, dogs like their owners, so no matter what the result of meeting, you will become the best choice of them.
I hope that through this story, you can understand the value of girls’ attitudes, so that you can choose wisely.
